END OF YEAR MEMORIAL: IN APPRECIATION OF MY LOVING WIFE.

As the year 2024 draws to a close, 
I find myself reflecting on the incredible journey we’ve shared. 
These past few days, as you nurse me back to full recovery,
Have given me the time to truly appreciate the depth of you being irreplaceable.
To the realization that the key to our 24 years of enduring love lies in the treasure you are. 
In the realisation that when you have someone as wonderful as you, there’s no need to search further. 
Realising the allure of greener pastures is merely an illusion, a pale imitation of the richness you possess.
Gratitude: I am grateful for the divine gift that you are. Grateful knowing love isn’t about perfection; but about choosing each other, day after day. 
About standing by one another through thick and thin, even when times are tough and the temptation to give up is strong.
True love isn’t always smooth and sweet. 
It’s messy and challenging, but also about two people refusing to quit. 
About weathering the storms and basking in the sunshine together. 
About fighting through doubts and limitations, reminding ourselves daily that love doesn’t thrive on convenience. 
But that the foundation of true love is commitment.
Flaming the memories by how lucky we are to have found each other. 
Jotting that the memories that last are those forged through trials and triumphs.
Notting it wasn’t always easy, but through it all, we never let go. 
Writing down the many moments we’ve shared that have made the journey worthwhile.
So, as we step into a new year, I celebrate you, my loving wife, mother to Osea Ozique, dedicated nurse, and confidant. 
Your unwavering support and love have been the cornerstone of our family.
Here, I toast to many more years of shared memories and enduring love to look forward to🥂

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