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TOPIC TODAY: Scrolling Through Life: Identity, Anxiety, and the Digital Mirror​Social media is here to stay, but the way we "consume" it determines our survival.• ​Can Lagos school counselors truly bridge the gap if the home environment remains "Authoritarian"?• ​How can celebrating diversity in the classroom stop the "standardisation" of beauty and success that social media demands?• ​The Big Question: If we want a generation that is "Stigma-Free," are we willing to start by being honest about our own mental health struggles in front of our children?

The blue light of Nne’s phone reflects in her eyes as she sighs, finally locking the screen and placing it face down on the wooden table at Evking’s Bar. "My cousin’s daughter just spent three hours editing a photo to look like a 'perceived' version of herself," she says. "By the time she posted it, she was so anxious about the 'likes' that she couldn't even finish eating dinner. She’s scrolling through life, but she’s losing herself in the process." JENNIFER: ​Adolescence is the ultimate Identity Lab. It’s when kids figure out "Who am I?" and "Where do I fit?" Usually, this happens in classrooms, but now it’s happening on social media. ​The problem is that social media creates a "Culture of Comparison." When a 14-year-old compares their "behind-the-scenes" life to someone else’s "highlight reel," they don't just feel sad - they experience a distortion of their very identity. ​NNE: ​And it’s t...

TOPIC TODAY: Is the "First-Born daughters Clash" a Choice or a Curse? ​Mothers and daughters often share a unique intensity because they see themselves in each other.​ Does "Obedience without question" create a safe home or a silent stranger? ​Can a parent move from Authoritarian (Control) to Authoritative (Guidance) when the child is already a teenager?​The Big Question: If we want our daughters to be strong, leaders, and "thinkers" in the world, why do we try so hard to make them "silent" and "deferential" at home?

The atmosphere at Evking’s Bar is a bit more intimate tonight. Nne is sitting with a glass of juice, her brow furrowed as she recounts a phone call with her cousin. ​"My cousin is exhausted," Nne says to the group. "She and her mother are like fire and petrol. Every conversation ends in an explosion. Now she’s looking at her own young daughter and panicking - wondering if this 'first daughter - mother Friction' is a generational curse or just a bad script they keep rehearsing." NNE: ​My cousin asked me if all first-born ladies are destined to be on the opposite side of their mothers. I told her I have a great relationship with mine, but then I realized... is it because we are "close," or because I was raised never to say "No"? I followed every directive without question. But my cousin's daughter is different - she’s influenced by social media, her peers, and her own mind. She’s "expressive." ​ELDER EPHRAIM: ​That "expre...