The Rape Excuses

To them thinking it is done without visible hurt
To you believing she will enjoy it after a while
To everyone artfully taking undue advantage
You are what you are-rapists; not her consent

To you with what means to feed the family
Buy or give her gift to compromise her person
Leaving no escape but to fall to your pressure
So you have unlawful sex is rape not assenting

She goes through the motion to keep her job
She says no at any point yet you won’t stop
You have sex with her thinking, just: Tit for-tat
You are swine-no better or worse; than rapist

Toy how you may for cover for your act: Paint;
Coating sowing sorrow angelic, it is still rapine

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